Beyond The Hopes

Every day is like a new chapter in the book of our lives. It might be as long as a page or as short as a single line, but each day contributes to our unique story. Time doesn't wait for us to be ready; it flows continuously. It's up to us whether we choose to rise or fall with the current. Time is like a road—it doesn’t decide if you’ll reach your destination; it simply provides a path to follow. If you’re not moving forward, that’s on you, not the road. You can't blame the road if you don't reach your destination. Roads are never wrong; sometimes, it's our choice of which road to take that leads us astray. Not every day ends with our desires fulfilled. Some days are just for growth, others for storing memories, and some give us the wings to soar. Only by choosing the right days and the right paths can we reach our destinations.

We all want to soar like a butterfly and experience the different fragrances of life's adventures. There are countless things we want to do, experiences we crave. But often, we struggle to find the right "flower" on which to thrive. Our journey pauses each day with hopes and dreams for a better tomorrow. We are burdened with expectations—our own and those imposed by others. These expectations can confine us, keeping our dreams within the boundaries they set. Our choices become narrower over time. Unlike the eagle that freely soars the skies, fulfilling its desires, our journey often resembles that of a tiny ant, covering only a small space to meet the needs of its family. There is a vast ocean of opportunities, yet our aspirations often seem like a mere trickle. People naturally want to be themselves, but circumstances often push them to conform. Life is simple if you live authentically. True beauty lies in being natural, and one cannot find happiness by constantly chasing beauty. The way you live your life should be beautiful. Happiness isn't a destination; it's a way of life. It comes when you cultivate your own garden. It’s good to help others water their plants, but problems arise when you start picking flowers from someone else’s garden. People's mindsets are often like dry leaves—uncertain and easily detached from the tree. A minor incident can spiral into a major misunderstanding. So, it's always best to nurture your own tree. Learn to thrive even in the desert. Try to live without relying on others. Nothing is permanent; even supports are temporary and meant only to aid growth. Once a plant becomes a tree, it no longer needs fences. Birds must eventually learn to fly on their own.

Once, there was a wealthy man who wasn't very fortunate. He lost his wife and daughter in a road accident and couldn't bear the thought of living alone. He decided to end his life in a forest. As he wandered, searching for a way to end it all, he came across a dry well and considered jumping in. But just as he was about to, he heard a child crying. Curious, he followed the sound and found a young boy with a thorn stuck in his leg. Surprised to see a child alone in the forest, the man helped him and asked why he was there. The boy explained that he had been left in the forest to die after his parents passed away, as someone wanted to claim his inheritance. Though scared at first, the boy found comfort in watching some rabbits play in the grass, and he began playing with them. Over time, he adapted to his surroundings, drinking from the lake, eating fruit from the trees, and starting a new life in the forest. The man was astonished that such a young boy could survive alone in the wild. He decided to stay with the boy to see if he was telling the truth. After a few days, he realized the boy truly was alone. Amazed, he asked, "How can you live all alone in this forest?" The boy replied, "I'm not alone! I have myself! To live without relying on others is real and authentic life. I understood this only when I started living it myself. You aren’t living your own life if it's tied to the expectations of others. If you can't spend even a day without them, how can you claim you're truly living? You're merely existing with their support. If they leave, you find someone new. You're journeying without a clear destination. You walk as others want you to, only to end up back where you started. Instead, walk with your own hopes and goals, and your path will be far more rewarding." This response profoundly shook the man’s beliefs, and he decided to start a new life alongside the boy.

Life is vast, and nothing can stop you from living it fully—except yourself. Enjoy it until your very last moment, your very last breath!